The Next Generation is Being Named: Try Generation T instead of Gen Alpha or Beta

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There have been a series of articles, including one in the Atlantic, suggesting that a new generation is on the horizon. Gen Z is being passed by a new generation, and the label ring ascribed to them is Generation Alpha. This happens when we define generations based on birth year.

I have another name for this new generation but before turning to that, I want to point out the generation naming is risky business.

We need to be cautious about homogenizing individuals, failing to recognize and acknowledge the myriad of difference within a generation — gender, ethnicity, race, culture, sociology-economic status, religion, home of origin among other variables. That said, the right definition — carefully crafted — has benefits in terms of more than marketing or political fodder; naming can be tied to framing — in all its meaning. In framing, we recognize and value and identify certain critical characteristics.

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Our Approach to Risk Differs Dramatically — Even Within one Family

In this time of a pandemic and uncertainty of every sort and in every corner of our existence, we need to determine risk at the global, national, regional, local and personal levels. I want to focus here on personal risk taking. And, I can state my conclusions up front: people are very different in calculating and acting with respect to risk and even when some folks seem over-cautious and others too cavalier, we need to recognize that in time of great stress and abundant things out of our personal control, folks will react differently; and, we need to be considerably more tolerate than we might otherwise be of people’s behaviors, most especially those who live with us. In other words, don’t push people to do what you do, to buy what you buy to protect yourself and to travel/shop/stay in as you do.

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The Questions We Need to Be Asking for Schools/Colleges that are Reopening: Are We Asking Them?

I am deeply concerned that we are not asking the right questions as we move to reopen schools across the educational pipeline. I have always believed, reified by the amazing book by James Ryan, Wait What?, that asking good questions is critical to the ability to think through problems. Quality questions often get at the soft spots in plans and strategies and arguments. Sometimes, they show that the Emperor really is not wearing clothes. They force thinking in new directions. They are framed as questions but in a sense, they are guides.

How one asks questions matters of course. The idea is not to be hostile and make the questions into accusations. The point is actually to probe for and listen to and hear answers but more than answers, the point is to see if the question-recipient has thought about the issues posed. The absence of a question being considered is an answer too.

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We Use Aphorisms in Times of Trouble: Time for Caution

When we struggle and can’t find the perfect words to express our feelings, we oft-times turn to well worn aphorisms (defined generally as short statements of a general truth or statements that provide insight or quality advice). The trouble is that some of these common aphorisms aren’t true and yet we utter them as truisms. And we keep repeating them as if saying them more confers more heft to them.

In reality, some aphorisms are downright wrong and harmful. (True, some are apt and accurate.) Some have taken on a political connotation, messaging vastly more than what one might suspect at first blush. Add to this that there are existing common aphorisms that contradict each other, leading one to believe that both can’t be true or can they?

For the record, I am not the first and surely will not be the last to question the meaning of what we say repeatedly that lacks meaning and actually promotes falsehoods.

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Overhauling Education: If Not Now, When?

I recently published this piece on how to revamp education. Hit the link below.


For me, the key is not what content we should offer to students of all ages and stages. The key is not what tests we need to give to students of all ages and stages. The key is not what particular class sizes we need to have for students of all ages and stages.

Instead, it is about what values — goals and aims — education can and should provide/achieve for our students.

We have tended to be so siloed in education. We have tended to be so discipline-focused in education. We have been so unwilling to see education as a pipeline where many folks are educators and education is not just what happens in the classroom.

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We Don’t Recognize Mental Distress: That has to Change


A recent article in the New York Times observed that doctors often miss post-partum depression. This illness affects not only the new mother but also the infant to whom she just gave birth. And it can affect other members of the household. And, the illness is usually treatable. Think about that for a moment.

In Her Words: Managing Mental Health Lilli Carré

Then, I was watching NFL football and saw the gruesome ankle injury of Dak Prescott of the Dallas Cowboys. And, I saw his tears and his teammates showing support. When you read about his personal road to the NFL, even if there is some hyperbole, you can’t help but think: Wow; this young man hasn’t had an easy journey….and now this. Physical injury yes but mental distress too.

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Why Don’t We Listen to COVID Guidance?

The Marblehead Incident(s)

I recently read an article about a party in Marblehead, MA attended by 20–30 young people. Apparently, no masks worn were worn. It seems there was no social distancing. There was, it appears, sharing of drinking cups (unclear what was in the cups). Now, this party occurred in a private home. (No word best as I can read as to where the homeowners/parents were.)

Apparently, most of the attending students scattered when the police arrived. That means that contact tracing is tough sledding since the names of party goers is not known. It seems that the students who were identified (because they were not fleeing) are not being subjected to any police action.

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The Positive Feeling Tree: An Idea for Now

These are difficult times. That is for sure. We know too that positive feelings are important and to think positively, we need three positives for every one negative.

That is why I created this Positive Feeling Tree. Each day, we take positive feelings from a jar filled with them (a gift from a friend) and we read them and put them on the tree.

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A Fun Strategy for Families/Friends During Holiday

Holidays are hard for many generally and now specifically. So, here’s something to try whether you are near or far, in person or remote: Tongue twisters!

Yes, really. They have a long educational history. They promote learning and enunciation. They build vocabulary. They showcase mistake making and trying again. They enable laughter among young and old. They are plain fun.

Try this downloadable right priced PDF — it can be ordered by several families and the tongue twisters tried (they are listed alphabetically). There are other word games in the book and one can also create one’s own tongue twister.

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How to Help Students (and others) Process the Presidential Election and Its Aftermath


When we listen and watch what occurred during election night and in the days after, one has to wonder how to help children process what they are seeing and hearing.  Regardless of one’s political party, it seems to me that we are having a hard time making good on this message: we are the United States of America.

Here are a set of strategies that can work with COVID-19 protections in place to help children (and perhaps adults too) understand how we move forward, how we create unity, how we deal with social and racial disparities.  These are strategies for online, hybrid and in person learning.  Ask: how do we process and understand how we became divided and how we can become united.  In this context, I am deeply informed by the 1960’s and the ways in which our nation was ripped into pieces then.

One more point: the goal is not to be partisan. It is to allow students to process the election whether one is in a Red or Blue State or has Red or Blue family/friends.

Also: this has been written just after the victory for President Biden as declared. It is possible that other activities/exercises will arise in the next few days, weeks and months.

Classroom Strategies and Activities:


Consider games that involve rules and rule-making and then changing the rules mid-stream or arbitrarily picking a winner or having too many rules.  Here’s an example.  Suppose that students each have separate piles of an item, ideally identical (paperclips; spaghetti; marbles; countable items).  Then say: Let’s play the paper clip game. Students will say: How do we play?  Collectively the students can make the rules without distinguishing between them.  Then, let students try to play but it is too confusing. So, one needs to prioritize among the rules. Assume a set of rules are adopted but as the game is played, the teacher keeps changing the rules mid-stream. Then assume students play by the rules but the teacher arbitrarily picks a winner, not the actual winner.  The point is we need rules, we need to play by them and we need to be fair.  We cannot change rules mid-stream or after the fact. Students can address how this worked and did not work and how we want it to work.


There are a set of questions that can be asked about voting that will interest students and can be researched and debated. For those with large international students, one can conduct comparisons among nations.  Ask what percent of the population votes in US and other nations. Why is it higher/lower in different locations? Ask students at what age one should be allowed to vote.  Ask students who should be allowed to vote.  Ask students about why election day is a Tuesday. Is that optimal? Is it used by other nations?  How about early voting and its effects?  Many of these questions are not “political” and could work whether one is in a red or blue state.


Ask students to think about how voter irregularity could occur.  What kind of scams could exist? How can we prevent those?  Students like to decode scams so it is worth identify some scams (whether in the US or elsewhere) and have student consider how the scams worked.  For example, look at this article.  Ask who is targeted? Why is it so so easy for scams to work? Read the article below to learn more.


There are a myriad of children’s books on voting and voting rights.  It is worth reading one or more of them to children but one has to be careful to make sure the pitch and tone of the books is fair and steady and accurate, given the complexity of voting across the US – federal and state rules and regulations.  My choices here are not historical – on the history of voting and voter suppression.

Here are two suggestions about the importance of voting; these are intended for an elementary school audience, although V is for Voting can be adapted because it uses the alphabet to share Democratic processes.

  1.  Curious George Votes by H.A. Rey (2020); and
  2. V is for Vote by Kate Farrell (2020)

Little Blue and Little Yellow might have value too in terms of unity.


It is worth getting an actual sample ballot for students to see; most folks don’t see an actual ballot until the first time they vote.  Share with students how to decode the ballot and how much one actually needs to know to be a thoughtful voter.  Note, too, the propositions that get voted upon at an election.  With the ballot in hand (before students vote), ask them how it could be simplified. Ask how well they can select among the candidates. Ask what information they would need to decide.  Let the students even do research and then indicate their voting preferences for one or two races based on what they learned.


Allow students to have a place to express their feelings and thoughts anonymously – say chalking or post-its on a wall. Students need to be able to process and expressing feelings is one strong route toward that end. The point is not to be judgmental with respect to what is posted (assuming it is in the realm of decency).


Consider how transparent and open we are about our support for different candidates. Ask students their views on whether people who are asked should or do share for whom they voted. Why might people be silent? Why might they share?  Would you (as a student or teacher) share. Why and why not?


Have students do these two short writing exercises:  If you were elected President but the margin was very close, what would be the first three sentences you would say on television (and in writing) to the American people regarding your win?  If you were the loser in a tight presidential race, what would be the first three sentences you would say on television and in writing in your concession remarks.  Have students read their remarks to each other. Compare them to the actual remarks of incoming President Biden and outgoing President Trump.


Transitions are hard for people in all situations and a presidential transition is not easy.  What four things would make a transition from one leader to another easier, better and smoother?  Do you think those four things will happen?  (Teachers can keep track over the coming months based on the students’ lists.)